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Old January 10th, 2019, 08:14 PM
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I think my give a d* broke

Mods, I'm not sure where this goes, move if needed.


I normally don't speak up about things.....thats changing.

I reported the unprofessional behaviour of co-workers

I let my DH know that DS needs more food when he (DH) cooks

I've told my DM that I'm not going with her to visit my older sister, her daughter, and granddaughter.


.....and the 🌎 didn't end.....
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Old January 10th, 2019, 08:20 PM
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

I'm proud of you, snafu!

How does all of this speaking up make you feel?
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Old January 10th, 2019, 08:38 PM
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

Co-workers .....felt like I was protecting the kids

DH .....scared that he might yell at me (he wasn't talking to me for a bit) but I also felt I was standing up for DS

DM.... Strangely, I'm fine. I do want to make her understand/accept my stance, but that ain't happening.

It's weird, I felt something "break" a couple days ago....and items 2 & 3 happened yesterday and today.
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

I'm speaking up more, and calling people on things ....trying to do so in a polite way,but don't always succeed.
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Old February 24th, 2019, 04:30 PM
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

😑
With DM not healthy I'm not in the mood for the mean girl's BS at work.
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

And there's nothing wrong with saying "I'm sorry, I've got a lot going on with my mom. I'm not in a good place to be dealing with that."
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Old March 1st, 2019, 05:08 PM
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

Get this.....mean girl absolutely refused to speak to me and another co-worker today.

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LOL - Lucky you!
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

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Get this.....mean girl absolutely refused to speak to me and another co-worker today.

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Old March 2nd, 2019, 06:17 AM
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Re: I think my give a d* broke

Bwahahaha

Mean girl raised her voice (level 4) and used a hostile tone at our TEACHER for telling staff to stay off cellphones and to treat students with respect ....after a gen ed teacher had complained.

I reported this, along with other behavior to our Area-Coordinator......and I wasn't afraid/scared.
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