Go Back   Friends and Family Forum > The Family Forum > Other

Other A place to discuss any other family member or have general family discussions

Thread Tools Display Modes
Old May 1st, 2009, 10:43 AM
KayKay's Avatar
KayKay KayKay is offline
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Texas
Posts: 16,239
KayKay has a reputation beyond reputeKayKay has a reputation beyond reputeKayKay has a reputation beyond reputeKayKay has a reputation beyond reputeKayKay has a reputation beyond repute
The gift grab

Can't figure out really the best forum for this, so I'm putting it here. A post in the IL forum reminded me...

Does anyone have family/friends who are guilty of "The Gift Grab"? It drives me crazy.

One of DH's college buddies married a girl like that. She was very clear while they were still dating that she wanted a HUGE wedding so that she'd get tons and tons of gifts. Her P's had to borrow money to have a wedding that had more people than food (finger food) and drinks. The kicker? We visited about a year after the wedding... she had returned most of the place settings and silver (didn't like that pattern after all) and had used the money to buy herself and her DH new wardrobes.

I made a mental note to buy savings bonds for any future baby showers I was invited to.
Expecto Patronum!
Reply With Quote
Old May 1st, 2009, 11:43 AM
Brownie Brownie is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Kansas
Posts: 320
Brownie is on a distinguished road
Re: The gift grab

Yes! My brother's family is like that!!! Invite or send announcement to everyone you remotely know so you can collect all the "loot" you can.

In addition, when his daughter became mobile (could drive), she would drive my my parents house on Christmas to pick up her Christmas check! Didn't stay for gift opening or dinner.

Then there's the type who has to give the "best" gift and/or make a public display of their "generosity". The event seems to turn into a competition!

(Please know that I consider this a fairly safe place to make these types of comments. The only person who hears this from me is DH otherwise I keep my mouth shut!)

Last edited by Brownie; May 1st, 2009 at 12:19 PM.
Reply With Quote

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:52 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright 2007, The BlueSparks Network