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Old February 10th, 2013, 08:46 PM
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Cool The dam has broken

I am normally not a confrontational person, I also back down on things... even those I shouldn't. The dam has broken .... and in the infamous words of Rhet Buttler ....

Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn. I have only one life to live and this isn't a dress rehersal ... there are no do-overs
There has been an issue at work ... I've wavered back & forth about dealing with it .... and I'm going to

Ex & non-girlfriend (tm) are planning on moving in together... I talked with ex about it tonight
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Old February 10th, 2013, 09:06 PM
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Re: The dam has broken

just FYI -
I told ex about DS's past complaints to me about the amount of time DS got to spend with just ex + a few other things

that DS has had displaced anger towards non-girlfriend's son ("Kyle") before because of things the adults decided, I told ex that I tell DS that its not "Kyle's" fault, but the adults who made the decision(s)

I also told ex that I've told DS he needs to talk to him about these things.

That its important to me that DS & ex have a good realtionship.


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Old February 11th, 2013, 04:55 AM
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Re: The dam has broken

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just FYI -

I also told ex that I've told DS he needs to talk to him about these things.

That its important to me that DS & ex have a good realtionship.


These two are very important. Well done here.
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Old February 12th, 2013, 05:51 AM
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Re: The dam has broken

I ... took care of the work thingy (snafu bites nails)
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Old February 12th, 2013, 09:02 AM
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Re: The dam has broken

Good luck with everything.

So will ex and non-girlfriend have her son living with them? Did you talk to him about that violating both your and her divorce decree?
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Old February 13th, 2013, 06:15 AM
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Re: The dam has broken

No - according to ex they are "just friends" whatever

... and I don't know what is in her decree - I had the non-cohabitation clause put in my decree... I don't think its standard/automatic
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Old February 16th, 2013, 02:45 PM
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Re: The dam has broken

I've not brought the possible living situation up again - DS has .... I think he's just using me as a sounding board
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