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Old July 19th, 2014, 02:40 PM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

It's going to be tough when your friends find out. Just stand firm. They did something illegal, not you. What kind of 24yo woman feels the need to have sex with a 14yo boy?!


Are your parents going to the police?
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Old July 19th, 2014, 03:05 PM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

They haven't decided that yet. They asked the two girls over tonight to talk to them.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 01:46 AM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

Sending you positive vibes, and am just so sorry for your family. In particular, you must feel violated yourself, i know i would feel that way. You are always welcome to come and vent here.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 10:27 AM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

They went to the police this morning. And my brother is irate and very confused.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 10:53 AM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

So does that mean the talk did not go well?
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Old July 20th, 2014, 11:12 AM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

Went really badly they showed no remorse and apparently love him.........
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

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Went really badly they showed no remorse and apparently love him.........
You brother is the victim of sexual abuse. If found guilty, they will end up on the sex offenders register. Having no remorse suggests they are predators and your brother may not be their only victim.

Sadly, your brother will not realize that he was the victim until later. Chances are it felt good in some ways, and he may have even consented. Only when he's older will he recognize that he wasn't old enough to actually give consent. I'm glad he has a family who is there to help him.

It is not easy to speak up in these types of situations. You are a hero.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 12:10 PM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

I don't feel like it honestly. Feel kind of awful. Brother is really angry at me and told me hates me.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 01:17 PM
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Hang in there. He will come around. It may take years, but he will eventually understand.

Have your parents considered counseling for him?
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Old July 20th, 2014, 02:03 PM
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Re: Best friends slept with my baby brother need advice......

They are going to be looking for one starting Monday.
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