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Old March 10th, 2012, 09:19 AM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

do you know why there is tension?


There have been very few people that I've met who just rubbed me the wrong way. Two that I met while I college - I worked with ... I later found out belonged to the same frat house .... it was just the personality type they recruited
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Old March 12th, 2012, 05:42 AM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

I honestly have no idea how to tackle the situation as i feel i tried everything, thanks for your help though and ill keep trying !!
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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:30 AM
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I honestly have no idea how to tackle the situation as i feel i tried everything, thanks for your help though and ill keep trying !!
Letting go is sometimes a great way to show love.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 11:15 AM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

^ Did you mean for that post to be in this thread, gardenofjade? It seems irrelevant.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 01:40 PM
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^ Did you mean for that post to be in this thread, gardenofjade? It seems irrelevant.
Yep, letting go of an awkward tension will probably eliminate it.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 04:30 PM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

I have no idea what you mean. How do you feel that is relevent to the OP's situation?
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Old March 12th, 2012, 06:17 PM
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I have no idea what you mean. How do you feel that is relevent to the OP's situation?
Some people accomplish this with prayer or in God's hands. Letting go is to free yourself and take a different path using faith and love. Letting go can be used in any situation, and sometimes has positive results.
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Old March 18th, 2012, 03:49 PM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

Something i find weird tho is i have friends that i kinda know and there is literally never any akward tension and will talk to them for hours about stuff alot of the time i might not even care about but if i hear were hanging with this guy its all holy **** what am i gonna say :/

Is it maybe i care too much what he thinks ?
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Is it maybe i care too much what he thinks ?
Do you care what he thinks? Why?
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Old March 18th, 2012, 04:24 PM
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Re: "Friend" with very awkward tension

Unfortuantely i have no idea if it is true, ive learned over the years that people that I won't care what they think of my image I can hang around a lot better
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