"child" custody & "adult" child
DS has turned 18 ... the custody agreement runs out when he graduates from school.
I have been telling him he gets to chose who he spends the holidays with - the rotation schedule doesn't matter. He's talked about going to his dad's to see the entire "clan" for Thanksgiving since they're supposed to be at his dad's this year.
Once he's done with school it will be on him to make plans, to arrange transportation, etc.
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