I have to ask permission for my son to spend the night!!!

[bellaikys]

I know your post was years ago but I hope you set an understanding between you and your husband about your son. My husbands mother never did that with her husband and she allowed her husband to interfere with their relationship. That is a hurtful thing for a child, adult or not to have the relationship with the mother destroyed. Please take this example in consideration.

[Amadeus38]

[quote=@witsend;25562]I need some help.

Wow! Tell hubby to quit being a selfish jerk! I would leave my wife before I let her dictate my time with my sons, who I had before she came along. Best of luck to you...you answered your own question...you won't turn your back on your son again. Might be tricky, but marriage is about love and respect...your husband needs to fully understand that.