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Old June 25th, 2017, 07:10 PM
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Re: Thinking of removing myself from my adult children's lives

First, thanks for the replies. I've been thinking about this a little and I think the answer lies somewhere in-between, probably something like Kay Kay is stating.

So, I think that I will make an effort to let them make the first move to invite me over, out whatever, and let the chips fall where they may! (The older one is moving away very soon so couldn't do stuff with them anyway). I'll just "hold on loosely" as the song goes, but leave it at that. As to Thanksgiving, my youngest is due right at the end of October/beginning of November so maybe this year isn't the best time. But I do plan on perhaps taking a Thanksgiving getaway one of these years just b/c it looks like it would be fun to go somewhere warm on TG!
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