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Old April 9th, 2009, 04:01 PM
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Re: 30 year old baby stepdaughter

Boofy, is there any way you can get your DH to see a marriage counselor or anything? You can't change your SD's ways; she is the way she is. The only thing you can do is stop letting it affect YOU, and the way to do that is to get DH's eyes opened to how much harm he's doing for everyone by enabling SD.

I know you want to let her have it, and I don't blame you, but she is the way she is because she CAN be. It's what she has done and will continue to do until something changes. Since I'm removed from the situation (and it isn't *my* house that isn't getting renovated) I actually pity your SD. I would hate her life, and the uncertainty her future holds.

Maybe since her life is so miserable and stressful, she should see a therapist?
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