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Old July 2nd, 2018, 12:31 PM
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Re: How can I help my boyfriend without doing everything for him all the time?

If he presents you with a problem I'd respond along the lines of "I'm sorry to hear that, what are you going to do about it?"

You can be a source of support and encourage him to find his own way without taking it upon yourself to be his rescuer.
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