Yes I actually do write their birthdays on my calendar, but sometimes I get too busy with my daily routine I forget to check my calendar and all.
Also, I dont like to send cash becasue it has got stolen before, This time I wanted something different that is also affordable. (Not to mention they're all far from me

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Lastly, I'm thankful though that most of my family members remember my birthday.
I really appreciate your responds Kaykay.