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snafu January 13th, 2019 06:18 PM

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I'm continuing to do normal things....if I go to the store I pick up some low sodium chips for her.

I talk to her about as much as normal....

I've recently realized that she's exhibiting the same behavior as my older sister, you defie her and there's hell to pay.

I'm to the point "play _____ games, win witch prizes".

LucyVanPelt January 14th, 2019 03:48 AM

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I'm sorry, snafu. Sadly, the bad behaviors get worse as they get older.

snafu January 16th, 2019 04:57 PM

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I don't know 💯 if the fact I've not taken the bait (so to speak) is the reason mom (No D about it) didn't talk to DS at all this evening. The only time she speaks is if she'd look stupid for not answering, and then she speaks in a soft/feeble voice. :( she also refused to answer the house phone (I was busy) until I looked and let her know it was for her. She was so busy playing games, the answering machine picked up.

I'm still doing my normal thing getting things I think she'll like or something different to try (korean pears as anyone?) I also buy a box card set every time they are offered for sale at school.

snafu January 27th, 2019 06:01 PM

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Update:

Mom is talking to me again....started the day the trip was supposed to happen.

I need to speak with her about expectations ( I am not responsible for her happiness)

snafu November 12th, 2019 10:02 AM

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I never did have a conversation with Mom :(

However she tried to get me to meet with my older sister again, I told her no and she accepted it.

LucyVanPelt November 13th, 2019 05:46 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by snafu (Post 87105)

However she tried to get me to meet with my older sister again, I told her no and she accepted it.

This is good. Do you think she spoke with your older sister?

snafu November 13th, 2019 08:26 PM

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Not a clue, but mom really needs to stop meddling.

snafu November 18th, 2019 03:12 PM

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I had an epiphany today

Mom has expected me to "rescue" her from my sister(s) for years

...and I'm removing myself from that position (passive enabler)

snafu December 15th, 2019 04:54 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by snafu (Post 86082)
DM has started bothering DS about his weight (he's wiry)


If she's not picking on one thing (ie: you need to....) she's picking on another

I just found out that at Thanksgiving she told him he had looked anorexic. 😠

My mom's whole family was either wiry or willowy!

snafu January 2nd, 2020 04:03 PM

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Mom's not talking to me again.

Thing is I realized that I want to make it up to her (we both weren't our best late X-mas day), however trying to "love bomb" her with new clothes is stupid.

But I already ordered them and let her know. (Via text)


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